there are two ways to learn how to do things the right way:

1. do it wrong, and suffer, and then learn

2. be taught by good teachers who use motivational psychology to imprint that learning with less suffering

there is basically no good teachers around anymore, because narcissists have taken over the job of designing the education system. yay prussia and state education. it's been a slow motion trainwreck for about 200 years this one