when i make bold, non interactive statements, i get more interaction than when i ask relational interactive questions.

is this like when i stopped seeking the attention of women i started receiving the attention of women?

Or is post oriented social media changing how we all think and relate?

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I don't have an opinion but maybe it's a bad legacy of legacy social networks?

probably. i didn’t really start to notice those kinds of things until recently. You can spot people who just left twitter or instagram. The way they talk is different.

But one thing is for sure, in #nostr I was able to talk to people who think very differently from me in a much more civilized way, more civilized than in real life.

i know right?!?

i love it.

I still prefer relational interactive questions, but I was never on twitter or instagram and I'm the nut job who deleted her Facebook account so you may be onto something here.

I think people may want an argument or debate (point/counterpoint) rather than a discussion or idea-share.

Also, in a world of cucks, almost any stance can be seen as heroic.

I know for myself, I tend to just post notes about whatever is taking up space in my mind, rather than trying to ask questions about it.

Either that, or shitpost. But my shitposting is not effective because it isn't memes, more sardonic irony, thanks to my disagreeable nature.

But yes, the landscape in which we are acting is certainly having an effect on our actions. Adapt or fail.