Remember ladies —

the classic male fantasy is to be loved for being himself, not his lifestyle status resources or accomplishments — failing to realize it is impossible to separate these things from himself

To the men —

same thing but for looks. This is why women are relatively uncomfortable when complimenting them on their physical appearance (“i love your eyes” —> cringe. She’s heard it a hundred times) compared to a personality trait (“you’re so adventurous, i love that about you”)

Love you all. Goodnight #nostr