Noob question but how do I check my conf file?
Tor ddos sounds like it could be the culprit. Not much can be done about that right? But why would that cause some of my peers to disconnect but not all?
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It depends on how you are running your node. If its bitcoind its in your /home/username/.bitcoin file. Core gui has a button to open it.
If you using umbril youll need to ssh into it and check umbrils data folder for it.