Didn't notice the mismatch on Damus, but did just check out https://metadata.nostr.com and my relay list had more relays than I see in my Primal client, including one I didn't think I was still using.
Might be worth checking there!
I think I may have figured out at least part of why nostr:npub18m76awca3y37hkvuneavuw6pjj4525fw90necxmadrvjg0sdy6qsngq955 TestFlight build 11 and beyond is off for me. I’m connected to 10 relays, but the app shows 14. Anyone else have a mismatch?
cc: nostr:npub1zafcms4xya5ap9zr7xxr0jlrtrattwlesytn2s42030lzu0dwlzqpd26k5 
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Thanks, Owen. This was very helpful.