That’s the whole point of the outbox model; you don’t jump through hoops nor send your note to hundreds of relays.
You signal where people interest in your stuff should find you and they fetch the data from there
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I wish I could tell if it worked, tho.
I feel like most people can't see what I write, even if they follow me, and I've kinda gotten used to it.
The weirdest moment, was a picture of my haircut going 🚀 on the big relays and everyone like,
Who dis?
Well, that was the weirdest moment... so far.