...and you are a fanatic. Certified, even

How in the world you managed to write an entire book with any cognitive thought must have been quite a feat, and I don't think you're 'O.K.' or better for it.

Seek help. Sexual openness is not a disease, nor is it destroying society. It's destroying /your/ myopic view, and that's it. Cognitive dissonance is a bitch, ain't it?