To make it worse: the only way to convince a woman of something is to convince her man. But the men of those women are even more female than they are, and those men are lower in the food chain in their families, and yet they all pretend that they are men, but they all pretend and believe that they are perfectly equal, while no two drops of water are equal nor the same on this earth. For their world Haiti's moment is unavoidable. There is no other way to untangle that mess.