As a male my take is less is more. I find in relationships where sex is happening more than a twice a week eventually it gets boring. There's nothing wrong with exploring eachother at a pace. After all, a life time is a long time!

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Interesting. My husband and I have been together for 27 years and once a week is not enough for him or me either physically or emotionally. We are all wired differently for sure.

I have been thinking about your answer and have a question…you have or will end a relationship with a woman who wanted sex with you more than once a week? You don’t need to answer if it’s too personal, but I am curious.

I would not end a relationship for it. Generally i shoot for the average of what we both expect. Mines just low. I dont prioritize sex, so who I'm with may get less sex over all, but, probably more adventurous. 😉