Oh, no, I’m just saying I’m personally fine with once a week as long as it’s happening. I’m a simple guy! Don’t need much to be happy.

We’ve noticed that it fluctuates depending on her cycle. Sometimes it’s maybe once a week, other times it’s twice in one day. It depends on a number of other factors that I could go into but it might be a bit TMI.

Ultimately, sex isn’t that important to our relationship. Some people treat it like a sport or a hobby but to us it’s just something to do after we’ve been flirting all day! Quality time and quality activities always take priority.

However, we did have a period where a lack of sexual intimacy was an issue. Turned out her birth control and poor diet was messing with her hormones. Got off birth control and started eating more quality red meat and things got better. Like, back when we first started dating, better!

Context: we’ve been together for a little over 12 years. We’re in our early 30s in pretty good health overall. We found that continuing to flirt with each other even though we’ve know each other for over a third of our lives really brought the spark back into our relationship. A booty pinch here, a booty slap there, a compliment about how good her booty looks… (there seems to be a pattern here.) and you’re good!