It's not so much about the protocol as much as it is about the ecosystem being in infancy. I get where you're coming from but, if you think about it, this is exactly what is beautiful about Nostr. We're early. People are building, exploring, trying things out.

Most of it is fully open-source so you can contribute and change things that don't quite work for you. That helps the community.

Or you can even build a custom solution that perfectly fits your exact needs and wants :)

++ Amethyst