I had to blacklist wellorder from NostrGram. It's being inundated with spam. Doesn't seem to have even basic spam prevention in place.
Discussion
Which relays are the worst offenders?
Want to keep some free ones going to find new people in global but the spam is too much at the moment
wss://nostr.mom
wss://relay.damus.io
wss://nostr-pub.wellorder.net
Taking those 3 out of NostrGram's list of read relays dropped server load to 25% of what it was before.
I was getting 8 second response time. It's really getting hammered.