That first note was about the topic at hand. this one is personal.

You began your reply with an ad hominem. You said I have no empathy or judgement. That is a terrible thing to say to someone. why do you feel the need to attack me? I wont be afraid or cower so no point but am curious. Why the attack. next . "This isnt elementary school" is a jab at my maturity level.

This is unnecessary and hostile behaviour. Be better.