Brother, I grew up in Lebanon under Hezbollah's dominion. They are not quite okay. They're as aggressive and as intolerant as their sunni counterpart, but they're just smarter about it, about how they achieve their goal. So they appear "quite okay"
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And yes, it's not all muslims, since there are individuals are who quite okay. But these are individuals who managed to break free from the collectivist yoke that islam has, islam being a very collectivist religion by nature.
Mental independence is a Christian idea. We have a very personal God, who wants us to choose to love Him, so He gave us free will.
Everything else is more or less tribalism, that's why they have all of these complex rituals and clothing and dietary rules and etc. It's a massive tribal burden, that comes along with their religion and makes it impossible for them to adapt to other cutlures.
One reason Christianity spreads so fast is because the outer yoke is so light.
I pray all Muslims will come to understand that Christ is the resurrected Son of God, and not merely an important prophet.
That is pivotal to receiving Grace and learning to live in peace.