I don't have a car 🥹 I could get that spray and pretend to have one though if police ever stop me 🙏 thank you! Yeahh I think pepper spray is illegal here. Dated a policeman once and he told me that, but he also taught me some self defense though 🥹
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best self-defense is running
That's what he said 🤔🙏
Yep if it’s possible. I’ve only managed to do it once. Every other time my fight/flight/freeze has been like let’s choose fight. Wait no. I was decently good at ducking and running a few times in SOMA in SF.
Oh yeah, it takes a bit of training of instincts to not instantly think that combat is the only way out
i guess all the movies, books and everything have thought us that we need to go through the enemy
When I’ve run it’s because there was a good and clear available opportunity.
Just fyi if a southern woman starts taking off her earrings, shit is about to go down. So that would be the time to run if you don’t want to be involved. Especially if you are with her. Cause if a southern woman takes off her earrings that is her signal to everyone she is with to prepare to back her up and fight.
Damn, I know what you mean about the freezing 🥹🙏💜 glad you were able to run though x what's SOMA? I went on a date with this guy and every time we went out he refused to let me leave, it was weird and he had no boundaries. I had no idea if it was okay to spray him or just keep telling him no 🤷🏽♀️🙈
South of Market, a San Francisco neighbourhood
uhh, what?
refused you to leave?
not your keys, not your guy then i guess
#tanelhas 🥹💜 that might be the first one on the list 😉
Yeahhhh, I don't know why but I felt afraid with him. Never felt scared on dates before him. I wanted to go back to his so he could teach me how to use Excel spreadsheets cos he knows some cool stuff, but when I didn't go (cos of a guy feeling) he got so upset, and I knew I did the right thing 👀 got to trust your gut. Also why can't I just go to a guys flat and play on Excel spreadsheets with him on a rainy day?
oh no, i just google fast, never been to the states yet (next year 🤞)
promised to show you his secret formula?
Next time a guy prevents you from leaving kick him in the nuts so hard he has to go to the hospital.
cashu outside, how ‘bout that
Yep, spray a little and sniff it at a distance carefully. You’ll know right away why it’s effective.