Defaults matter though. Would be curious to see what percentage of users here use the default custodial service vs self-custodial.
You’re also not taking into consideration the context of the apps as well. Social media app VS a private messenger: I’d argue for the former privacy is not so important whereas for the latter it’s imperative.
There’s a lot of nuance here and I think it sucks that you’re trying to moralize and shame something that would be genuine improvement in the ecosystem.