๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธโ‰๏ธโ”Is an18 year old dating a 30 year old appropriate? Why or why not?

My goal is to have a friendly conversation on this. Thanks ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Is she hot?

Not really โ€ฆ at least I wasnโ€™t at 18-19

I thought the woman was the one that's 30 in this scenario

You didnโ€™t distinguish so ๐Ÿ˜‚

In general I don't think age is much of a factor on its own. A lot of relationships are predatory at all ages and maybe it's more common with an age gap like that, but history shows us there can sometimes be groups of humans who just don't usually prey on each other regardless of age. So judging relationships based on age seems like society projecting a big issue onto a smaller part and ignoring the rest of it

Fair.

You kinda were though.

Thanks. No mentally. Always fierce but my perceived โ€œbeautyโ€ was turned against me most my life, only in late 30โ€™s did I accept it can be a beast but not a burden. Hope this makes sense.

Did I mention I'm retarted. Seriously though, I don't think I would have liked it much to be a beautiful young lady. Happy to read you eventually found your footing.

Prettier than most girls I know!

Appreciate it. My hope is my soul stays beautiful cause it took a long time to forgive myself. Mean it ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿค™

The vibration of your soul is a reflection of your subconscious health. IMHO

Work on that, and you'll be fine.

What the fuck do you know about the vibration of my soul since I block those I donโ€™t think deserve it? Genuinely ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

If you find you a nice 18 year old man, go get em. Lots of energy I hear.

I have always dated at my same age and my wife and I are the same age.

Right on, man. Iโ€™m 45 & was thinking about my past. I had dated a 30 year old when I was 18. At 30 I couldnโ€™t imagine myself having anything in common with one. Thatโ€™s all. Appreciate your feedback.

Also, Ima mother. None of mine are in this situation. Considering how Iโ€™d react. ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿดโ€โ˜ ๏ธ

I don't see a problem, but honestly, talking with people 10+ years younger than me has proved to be exhausting sometimes even if they have similar interests, age really does make a difference in relationships

This!!!

I think it's cool. I was retarded already and she was kinda smart. It made sense at the time. We had a good run.

Interesting ๐Ÿง I shall think on this, appreciate it. Hugs ๐Ÿซ‚

Happy to help.