are girls allowed to be tomboys or are they trans men in the closet
which one is allowed
is a girl allowed to be a whole person or only half of one
is she allowed to be single? is she allowed to be a spinster? is she allowed to be just an auntie? must she be a mother? is her purpose to be a lover or can she choose to be an artist or an architect or an artist and an architect both. can she do math? can she sing, too? or no