This was super helpful, especially as someone who is not incredibly intimate with the technicalities behind Nostr.
NoStrudel is also a good client to tinker with relays.
Things are snappier and def less spam.
(No Haven setup)
nostr:naddr1qqxnzde4xqerqdpkxuun2wfhqythwumn8ghj7ct5d3shxtnwdaehgu3wd3skuep0qgstwf6d9r37nqalwgxmfd9p9gclt3l0yc3jp5zuyhkfqjy6extz3jcrqsqqqa28j92sw0