the Male Honeypot Problem: you use other men to gather intel for you. they end up liking the target while being bribed by you, a rich man. they eventually have to perform sexually and this sets the stage for resentment toward the woman. the rich man views this as simping, when it's something even worse: empathy for the woman for being constantly put in positions of sexual compromise by rich men. can't have that or your Honeypot and Female Target might end up falling in love.

now you're in an even worse position: love is a powerful feeling and you must use money of all things to tempt either the man or woman away from each other. one might even use disinformation against both to pave the way for another Honeypot to perhaps intervene and control the situation. once both figure out what a liar the rich man is, all bets are off. the heart wins and he has been resigned to the position of Matchmaker.

he is now just a face-saving SIMP in the eyes of the public and the former Honeypot is now her hero.

all this because you thought you were too good to walk up to her and say "hello".

loser.