payment went through, but zap is not showing on the note. i think maybe cause the clients i'm using are not querying the alby relay for the zap receipts. i checked damus and primal. the alby relay is not on my relay list so that could be the problem. i don't think many people have the alby relay on their relay list.
Discussion
the zap will not be on the alby relay. the alby relay is solely for NWC events (here paying a bolt11 invoices. - which does not know anything about being a zap)
the recipient publishes the zap to the relays set by the client as defined in the NIP57 spec.