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Take kids out of public schools and maybe bring back initiating boys into manhood through some sort of quest. School removes them from the world and its responsibilities.

Everything about the modern institutions are set up to shunt responsibility away from the individual (bureaucracy, democracy, etc.). Responsibility is a necessary factor in shaping the boy into a man. This is why modernity has failed us and why we have so many effeminate man-boys.

To resolve this I believe that we must pave a new way forward while also looking back to pre-modern tradition. This is why I'm now a serious inquirer into Orthodoxy.