Me too 😣 you ever seen Good Will Hunting? I always think about the scene where Skylar asks him out for coffee sometime and he comes back with ‘Great, or maybe we could get together and just eat a bunch of caramels.’ And she’s confused and he goes on to explain ‘When you think about it, it's just as arbitrary as drinking coffee’.
If I coerced people to eat caramels with me to be polite, just cos I like it, I’m sure they wouldn’t be pleased.