Jesus should not even be compared in your equation at all. The word of God is the word of God.
Perversion is clear.
The apostasy desires that all exceptions become the rule and that the common sense of Scripture be disregarded.
Again, I ask, is your way a way of salvation or is it a convoluted structure meant to numb men into believing they are not saved through Jesus Christ. Clearly the LORD made man and woman to be married and in service with each other.
Do you want to prove a point and apologize for apostasy or do you want to send souls to be with Christ?