Im also not a fan of huge blocks, but a blocksize upgrade to 10mb or something would solve most problems for now, also self custodial lightning would be easier if fees were lower.

The current limit is treated like a golden cow which can not be touched even though we have much faster internet and much larger storage capacity than 13 years ago.

Sad to see that so many people get onboarded to custodial lightning wallets which is just paypal on bitcoin, no privacy, not your coins, not your keys. Just a bank with a different name.