One step at a time, you're on the right path. Reach out if you're stuck on anything specific - lots of here willing to help!

And as shitty as this is, it's unfortunatly not a unique story. I've heard similar things happen all the time, its no different than people getting deplatformed on social media... you're just a commodity at best and its cheaper for them to stick their fist up your ass than actually try to help.

Normies dont understand... you do not just simply upload music direct to spotify.