Sorry, I don't usually use Nostr at home or on the weekend. You are awesome for two reasons. Firstly, for responding at all. And secondly, for disliking Utilitarianism.

Unfortunately we agree or I'd immediately know what to ask next. Maybe you should ask me a question.

Anyway, I guess I could ask, if the moral action isn't the one that maximizes utility, then can you say how else we should determine what is moral?