"Being sexually desired by a man isn’t a flex. Let’s be honest ... half of them will chase anything that gives them attention for five seconds. Lustful men don’t crave connection, they crave stimulation. They’ll drool over one woman today, another one tomorrow, and call it “chemistry” when it’s really just habit. Same recycled lust, just a new face to project it on. That’s not attraction, that’s appetite.

Real attraction is rooted in respect, consistency, and emotional discipline ... not just desire. The real flex isn’t how many men want you, it’s how few truly have access to you. It’s being respected in silence, admired without exposure, valued even when you’re unavailable. Because any man can want your body… but it takes a different kind of man to love your soul. The one who doesn’t chase instant gratification, but shows up with patience, protection, and peace. Lust is easy. Love requires effort. And that’s the difference between being wanted and being chosen."

~ Lori

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