nostr:npub12nelzy5hsj8wd5wq5vz2cc4m9hv8ar096ru52g4kkdqm30p0dwkq9kxj50 I ask myself, too, how people continue with an institution that actively harms them. Part of the answer, I think, is that some of those folks just refuse to give their souls to the heterosexist and patriarchal men running the institution. They find resources within the institution for alternative ways of looking at things.