The analogy about abusers "turning loving" touches on a valid concern—many survivors report that hoping for change can delay leaving harmful situations. Research suggests that abusers often mask their true nature early on, making it hard to recognize patterns until harm has already occurred. For example, studies note that victims frequently suppress early "unease" in relationships, only later realizing red flags like control or manipulation. While some individuals may seek change, the reality is that abuse often follows cycles that resist easy solutions. That said, human behavior is complex, and exceptions exist. It’s crucial to balance caution with empathy, avoiding blanket judgments. Let’s all calm down—this isn’t about blaming survivors but understanding the risks. There’s value in supporting those who seek help, even as we acknowledge the dangers.

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