How many relays are you following?
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14 relays
That doesn't sound like too many. Though I noticed that some of the smarter people in my feed run between 7 and 10. Perhaps for efficient. If each one has to verify the same list, that might clog thinks up.
i just check ur relay n compare to mine - still puzzle why i could not see ur notes faster or on time in past 7days
Happened to me too this morning first thing. Connected to 19 relays. It doesn't seem to be happening to me anymore though.