Its a good reminder that this is why things like simplex exists. This is the nature of communication online. employees, governments, and companies buying your data can already see this information on existing social media platforms. nostr just exposes this reality. This doesn’t mean we can’t do better. We definitely can. Giftwraps are one approach, but we can do more targetting DMing to specific relays and use AUTH for dms. I think there is a wine relay for this, but some clients like damus still need to implement it.