Like for instance, ive made it very clear i have an egerness to learn but have a few disabilities just watching videos or reading and learning i have to do itn step by step....now I'd love for someone here to take the TIME to hold my hand and teach my stupid ass something, possibly life changing for someone like myself, but who has TIME for that, to be the nice person? Nobody.

The problem with being kind, collaborative, and and supporting others to be the nice person, is that it requires time.

And it's not a currency people give up lightly.