Your own node is a good place to start. Otherwise you’d probably just keep most of your sats on-chain and only keep a small enough amount in custodial Lightning wallets that wouldn’t ruin your life if you ever lost them.

phoenix

OBW or Blixt.

Full LN nodes in your pocket!

Blixt runs on macOS too.

OBW supports also custodial channels that let user receive starting with zero funds, really nice to onboarding newcomers.