Ah good point. Well i say dont give up. A mix of in person plus dating apps works too. I know too many who gave up on in person and only do online now. I got married before dating apps took off. Was crazy to notice how fast people switched over.

Get involved in groups who have similar values as you, whether it is gardening, btc, liberty, church, etc. Being around people with similar priorities is your best bet. Although I am a huge fan of marriage, don't rush it. Getting attached to the wrong person can be worse than being alone.