I will try the Phoenix wallet. I have Wallet of Satoshi and Alby and recieved sats on there from nostr posts.

The problem is converting from bitcoin to the lightning network.

Places you can buy crypto need to have a special license from the State. Coinbase has one, but I can't transfer to lightning from there.

Moonpay isn't licensed in the state.

Cashapp I can't do it either.

I got tired of trying but will look at Phoenix. Thanks for your suggestion!