That’s a really sad story. But I’ma man and much less sensitive. I think it’s the way we’re built.
A simple fact of life is you cannot control other peoples thoughts and decisions. You can give them your best advice and really care but ultimately they have autonomy and there is nothing you can do about it. This is truly a sad story but you did all you can and there is really nothing more u could have done. You have to give people the dignity of doing what they want.