Yes defnitly it is always a kind of art to criticise in a way the other person is able to understand. But I would say as long as we are as honest to tell the criticism in the face of the person to criticise is always in favor of just talking in circles with other people. Since I beleave, that it feels so releaving, to know that someone says if there is a problem. Since it means when the person is not criticising, or better communicating rhat all is fine. Everyone knows it is real. It is genuine.