Something that years of introspection and dating exhaustion has forced me to realize, and something everyone should ask themselves, in my opinion, given the huge changes in the dating realm π :
Do you want to have your standard traditional family, only a child, or both? Figuring out the answer to this can take alotta pressure off people when dating.
Lol. As ironic as it may sound, being a single parent made me realize that I only want a child. Dating a single mum is rather pleasant in this regard because we both want the same thing. We're both financially stable, but most of our time needs to be spent caring for our own little lass! So, we both date just for companionship, really. π€·ββοΈ LOL. No pressure.