har harr harr
or you could say matrix, right?
why not go for IRC, what's this new fangled shit for anyway?
i work for a guy who is deep in the business of chat, his focus area is remote collaboration for distributed teams
he's not happy with matrix or jabber or any other shit either, and i don't blame him, i've used all these things over the years and none of them were as unified as nostr DMs