Yep, that's worse!!
When we first got married I had 3 months of work left, which included 12x2h weekends every 3rd weekend or so. It was brutal!
But hey, I left my husband alone at home so he fell into the bitcoin rabbit hole, so at least we got something good out of it.
But wow, 12h shifts as you normal?! Bless you man!! and your wife!