For the past couple of days, I've been talking big words like relationships

Basically, I've been thinking how agency, independence, free will, and relationships fit together

How do you find the right balance when you have to maintain your individuality and yet be part of a relationship?

How do togetherness and free will work in tandem?

#grownostr #plebchain

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Have the free will and maturity to understand that compromise is negotiating.

Decide for yourself what your willing to give up (temporarily) for the benifit of both. And recognise when it's not being reciprocated and call it out.

Tune such things to match the energy and personality of your partner.

It's the modern world, there is no maturity... 🤣

Ok I'll be serious for a second, only a second though.

Perhaps if someone is going to hook up with someone else, maybe they should look for someone who is like themselves, it'll save alot of drama...

In other words ignore the bloody natural drugs your body is pumping out & choose wisely instead.

I think i prefer your TL;DR version Sandor 🤣🤣

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Dependence: 1+1=1.5

Independence: 1+0=1

Interdependence: 1+1=3