Stubbornness and hoping people use software they way you want them to is not going to lead to adoption. Bitcoiners thought everyone will just use bitcoin the way it was in the early days and it clearly didn’t happen. It took years of UX improvements to get more people onboarded. Coinbase, as much as everyone hates them, made that much easier. The same will be the case for nostr. “You’ll use it this way and you’ll like” it is pure hopium / unrealistic dreams.