one could do a strfry plugin that does the things in the post below. clients than can check these events and find new relays in a decentralized way.
people could download executables (strfry+write policy plugin) and run the relays at home. 'relay is in the node moment'. ultimate decentralized nostr. (fiatjaf will hate me less)
another addition to the document: there could be proxies for layers. a proxy for connecting clients to all the layer 4 relays for example. this helps with decentralization and is efficient at the same time.