Agree here. Nostr is inherently public. DMs could be better, but I wouldn’t use nostr for super private messages anyways. To me as long as the DMs aren’t readable by others it’s sufficient.
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Host your own relay and give access only to your buddies. Then use nip04/44 encrypted DMs. That's sufficient privacy?
Yeah I mean you could do that. I just don’t really have the need for that type of privacy. Cool that it’s possible though 🙏
I do like the idea of running a friends only relay though.