Why not considering moving to another country and try adoption there? You could help many poor people.
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Not an excuse but just how it is.. financially and passport wise I can’t really move anywhere without great financial ability…
I understand. It's a tough decision. You need to think carefully about it and discuss it with your wife. I kinda sense that you wouldnt really be sure about a donation, since you ask here the nostr community.
Anyway the child should not suffer from your decisions or mind changes later on and deserves to grow up in a stable family.
Have you considered about taking care of foster kids with an option for adoption?