Where can I start slowly learning about running my own relay?
I thought the whole point of this thing is that its run by many relays and if one fails you still got many other back ups, kinda like Bitcoin miners and node runners?
Discussion
Actually, paid relay at nostr.wine does not delete notes. Also, relay.tools offers “one click” relay self hosting.
That is the point, but similar to running a node for bitcoin running a relay for nostr can help grow the system or just have a private relay to store your content in case another relay you subscribe to goes down.