i don't remember which PUA said it but he's right. when women describe how they want to be treated they are talking about how they want to be treated by a man they have a crush on already. in most cases to get them to have a crush on you the OPPOSITE is required. which is probably why women talk about how you should buy them flowers etc. because the guys they crush on NEVER DO THAT.
essentially women only date men who treat them badly but want these men to treat them well. however they will never date a man who actually treats them well. and they will break up with you if you start threating them well.
their goal is to find an unbreakable man and break him. they aren't aware of this because as Andrew Tate said "women do not think"
a good strategy is to treat women badly to get them to spread their legs then dump them right after. after all the only point of dating is to hurt each other.
beginners ( incel ) - hurt themselves
intermediate ( players ) - hurt each other
advanced ( MGTOW ) - enjoy fishing or carpentry
retards - get married
LOL J/K if you want kids you gotta do what you gotta do