i read all the comment above.
despite loving LN so much and enjoy the privacy it has given me, i agree with one clear thing, you cant run a highly private LN transaction unless you run your own node or complicatedly route it through private nodes.
monero on the other hand can readily being used.
monero is time tested, unlike its privacy coin counterparts like zcash or secret network (but which has shown evidence of compromised).
in the privacy field, it is indeed the most senior