Women are always feeling sorry for themselves. Yes, she squandered her youth on the hateful feminist lie. The "big 50th" birthday party is for people who had kids young, are married, and aren't reclusive. Even for them, it's really just extended family's excuse for people to get drunk and free food. Today's world where everyone is broke and communities are destroyed by multiculturalism, there is little room to have an "over the hill" party.